Baby Seeking Arrangement Profile

6/14/2022

So I recently posted this up on my Instagram and thought it would be nice to write a little bit about how I went about finding my SD.

I thought about the complications of having too many SDs in the one city and I thought of the different circumstances that would suit me and I decided that potentially an SD that travelled to Melbourne would suit me well as I wouldn’t need to be dedicated to him regularly as my schedule couldn’t deal with an SD who needed me regularly a few times a week – how draining.

Posts about seeking arrangement written by thedirtyonbeingasugarbaby. POT: A potential Sugar Daddy or Baby. I have to be realistic, right? I’m not a young 20-something who can woo any guy she wants just by bearing her midriff (and then some!) so when I’m scrolling through profiles on SA, I have to target those who I think would find me attractive (and that I could be attracted to as well).

These were the steps to take on Seeking Arrangement or a similar site:

1. Exclude those who live near you or in your city
2. Include keywords your county or your city. Often SDs will include cities they travel to often in their profile
3. This will bring up all the profiles that have those keywords – It’s a numbers game so work at a good introductory message and go for it!

I’ve had questions as to how to make your POT become your SD and that it’s harder if they’re overseas/interstate. Whilst this may be true, if you are a unique, capture his attention and fulfil a need (usually emotional as he can get physical from anyone! ) he can’t get from another person, he’ll be able to make it work. It is NOT about convincing him, it’s about making him see for himself what he’s missing by not having you in his life .

I was lucky with my UK SD, he was the first one I messaged when I looked through the filtered profiles and when I contacted him, he was actually in my country at the time! He was setting up a business here and we spent his last two nights in my city together, wining, dining and having fun. So much he was besotted and now flying me to him. He sees me as “worth it” and doesn’t have another baby. He wants me to travel the world with him in the future!

Seeking.com has been featured and reviewed by CNN, 20/20, New York Times and many other media outlets as the world's largest network for Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby relationships. In fact the New York Times has called SeekingArrangement the 'best sugar daddy fishing hole' for many reasons. First, we never employ fake dating profiles. Nov 06, 2016 Filling out your basic information on your Seeking Arrangement profile is required to have your profile approved, but most fields are optional. Remember to pick a Lifestyle, though, as this will help you match people looking for the same; pick Negotiable if not sure. You can change these options at any time.

After extensive research – I realised there was a whole world out there for sugar I never considered.

Admittedly, I regretted not starting a decade ago as most Sugar babies seemed young, ‘hot’ and your typical university student who was in need of money to pay their way through college.

In Australia, we have a different system where the government loans you the money to gain and education and you then pay it back when you start making enough money.

So here I was, after two degrees and working in two stable jobs (yes, two!) thinking of a way I could find a niche in the market I could slip in to so I could target in my profile

What is it that SDs want that I can give them?

I looked at a few profiles and whilst a lot of them asked for a ‘young attractive companion’ of some sort, a lot also wanted brains, they wanted a conversation, they wanted to help SBs. Then I found my niche.

Good Seeking Arrangement Profile

Every part of my profile I completely researched; not wanting to over represent myself or under represent myself.

Good Headings For Seeking Arrangements

Username: The first section asked me for my username in which they advise not to use your real name so I opened up a random username generator and clicked away until I found one that suited me – in my mind, I wanted something neutral. Not too feminine as O felt it represented me best.

The heading: An eye catching heading that stood out from the rest. After a bit of research, I had read one SD say the best eye catching heading he saw was, ‘Welcome home’. Based on that, I decided I’d settle on the focus of making my SD laugh or spark his curiosity.

Photos: They had to be clear, with full body shots and without others. A few private ones just to release to those you’ve deemed worthy. I chose a few that highlighted my features and gave a true representation of myself without scaring people away (hah!). I could only imagine what kind of photos the other SBs were posting out there so once again, my photos had to tell a story.

Seeking Arrangements Heading Ideas

Personal Info: Whilst it was stock standard and easy, I was stumped on my occupation and Lifestyle expectation. I have a high status position (that doesn’t make that much money) but putting that on my profile wasn’t going to be a good idea, I figured. And as for my Lifestyle expectation, I had no idea… so I chose negotiable. Having thought about this, I may change it in the future.

Bio (About me and What I’m looking for):Having been on various internet dating websites, I was used to talking about myself in an assertive way to scare off the guys. But this was different. There was 8 SBs for every 1 SDs so I had to impress whilst still sounding like I needed help or some kind of mentorship. I had to sound like I didn’t have it all figured out and I still wanted more.